fraternity lifestyle

 

 

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How am I going to fit in? How will I focus on my work? How can I have a better time? These are common questions I will have to consider when deciding to join a fraternity or not. In an article written by Ralph Heibutzki who writes for a credible news source talks about the positives and negatives of joining  a frat. He has helped me understand that I can’t go wrong with deciding to join a frat or not.

    First he lists the positives. The first one is having a chance to network. He says “The opportunity to network is a key motivator for participating in Greek life. Joining an established, business-oriented fraternity like Alpha Kappa Psi, founded in 1904, gives members a taste of the real world through presentations and team-building activities, "Bloomberg Businessweek" reports.” He is trying to say that fraternities get kids involved and socially connected with people. Another positive is leadership experience. He says “Greek life also offers students a chance to develop their leadership skills. Participating in the organizational affairs of a fraternity or sorority builds students' collaboration and problem-solving skills that can help them later in their professional careers.” He is saying that people can develop certain skills in a frat which can help them succeed in life. The last positive he mentioned was lifelong friendships which is pretty self explanatory.

    He also lists some negatives. The first one is public perception. He says “The prevailing image of fraternities and sororities is one associated with heavy drinking and controversial hazing incidents, which have often prompted harsh crackdowns. In extreme cases, fraternities have been booted off campuses nationwide, forcing members to arrange alternate housing, "The Indiana Daily Student" reports.” He is saying that frats are often known to be filled with self centered kids who like to drink a lot and it creates a bad reputation especially if your frat gets in trouble. Another negative is social and financial obligations. He says “Many students are not prepared for the social and financial obligations that come with Greek life. Besides membership dues and the cost of housing, students may rack up additional expenses through penalty fees, or having to absorb the cost of unsold tickets from Greek-related charitable events, "Her Campus" magazine reports. Brothers and sisters are also expected to attend relevant functions like Greek Week events, and pledging activities, which runs the risk of overshadowing their academic life.” He is saying that greek life can be distracting and there is a lot of time and work you need to put in.